Before We Met | Our Story

Before We Met | Our Story

As with anyone who is now happily together or married, our story started well before the day we met. The years Nathan and I spent in school, college, and all the growing up in between shaped and formed us into the people we are today. There are so many different things I could talk about, but the biggest aspect of our lives that has made us who we are is our relationship with God. I know that this is not everyone's story, but I hope you continue to read anyways as this is who we are and the biggest reason he and I ever became a 'we' in the first place.

Strangely enough, our stories of deciding to become a Christian are somewhat similar. Nathan was riding home from his church's Vacation Bible School week when he was in 3rd grade, and he realized that he wanted to pray and invite God into his life. It was there that his mom helped him find the right words to do just that...

10 Things You Didn't Know About Me | Our Story

10 Things You Didn't Know About Me // Our Story

Last week was a fun blog to write! I got to share more about my husband, the guy behind the scenes who encourages me, helps me, and has such a great heart for the people around him. However, it's only fair that if I get to share ten things you didn't know about him, that I share about myself as well.

This was kind of hard to write. On the one hand, I'm glad I don't have any deep, dark secrets. On the other hand, this post would be a million times better if I hit you with something big at the end. But hopefully in reading a few things about me you'll get to know me a little better, and find something in common with me. Like my fear of straws. Yep. Just read on.

1) I have a fear of straws. If you eat out with me, you'll notice I just set mine to the side and drink straight from the glass. This comes from a story about someone piercing their eye with a straw once, and it scared me to death. It's probably not true, but I take no chances.
2) Family pets were my THING growing up. We had hamsters, guinea pigs, turtles, hermit crabs, more guinea pigs, a duck, and eventually, a dog. Nathan wants no part of this for our kids, so I'm secretly hoping they'll start the begging early.
3) In high school I ran one season of "indoor" track. I roll my eyes at that because the only thing that was indoor about it were the meets, and it was in the dead of winter. Y'all, I was cold. And I swore I'd never run again. That changed, but...
4) I wanted to wear glasses SO badly when I was younger. I have no idea why, because of course I ended up being the only kid in our family with the bad eyesight. Don't worry, I rocked some sweet train glasses all the way through 8th grade. (Yes, it was scarring. Now I wear contacts)
5) I'm obsessed with mugs. We have a million random mugs from all over. In fact, we even got rid of our pretty stoneware mugs just so I could keep my collection.
6) I drive a manual (stick shift). It makes me feel pretty cool, at least until I get stuck in traffic.
7) Nathan and I are gluten free, at least for the most part. For him, he gets inflammation from gluten. For me, I read 30 Days of Real Food and never looked back.
8) After visiting Portland last year and being totally unprepared for it at the time (aka we took the worst route possible), one of my personal goals is to summit Mt. St. Helens.
9) I have a thing with grapes. It's bad. If I buy them, I will usually finish them that day - before Nathan even gets home. It's an addiction.
10) Since we moved overseas when I was just a baby, I actually learned both Chinese and English at the same time. I could speak Mandarin and the local dialect fluently by the age of 4 or so, and my mom used that little advantage to get some great deals at the market where we shopped.

And coming next week...the part of our story before we met! Watch out for it next Monday.
Last week: 10 Things You Didn't Know about Nathan

10 Things You Didn't Know About Nathan | Our Story

Our Story - 10 Things You Didn't Know about Nathan // Monday Musings

When I think about what topics to write about, a few things are important to me. The biggest thing I think about is what I want to write about! This may seem obvious, or even selfish, but as a writer I have a very hard time forcing myself to write on a topic. The blogs that have been the least successful are those I can clearly remember agonizing over - from start to finish, it was a chore instead of a joy. 

The second most important thing, of course, is what matters to you - the faithful blog readers that I love so much! I realized one day that I've never shared our story on the blog. I think that's because I feel like I know each one of you so well already. As my blog and business have grown, however, that's not always the case. Thankfully, I now have readers here that I've never even met! That both excites me and humbles me, so I want to share the story that has shaped and defined my life over the last (almost) 9 years. (And THAT makes me feel old!)

To start off, though, I want to introduce Nathan a little more. He's the person behind so much of my business that you never get to see, and I hate that! He's definitely more shy than I am, but his heart is so kind and generous, and he loves serving other people. He deserves more love than he gets on here :) I hope that each person reading this gets to meet him one day, but until then, here are 10 things you may not know about my husband!

1. Nathan got rid of all his social media profiles years ago and really don't miss out. He did it to simplify his life, and it's done wonders for him. It honestly makes me a little jealous sometimes that he has so few things to worry about.
2. He gets on MAJOR food kicks, and eats one thing almost nonstop for months. When we first got married, he was into Cheez-Its like crazy. I bought two boxes per week when I grocery shopped. After that it was Life cereal. Then it was Krave cereal. (We ate so much of that it makes me feel sick just thinking about it) Lately it's been cheese and dark chocolate. He can't get enough of it! I always wonder what's coming up next...
3. He always swore he'd never marry someone younger than him by more than a year. Guess he messed that one up :) I'm younger than him by almost 3 years. Oops!
4. Even though he's shy, he loves being onstage. Even he admits he's a total ham, which is exactly the opposite of me. I love people, but I am terrified of public speaking and being onstage. So direct any speaking requests over to my other half ;)
5. He can lay down a wall back flip like a pro. We have a lot of pictures and videos of him doing this over the years, on everything from the dining hall at Virginia Tech to a tree.
6. Nathan hates yard work - partly because he's allergic to grass and partly because he has just never liked doing it. He's been a trooper now that we have a house with a yard, but mostly it's because he's cutting down plants and trees and I have to hold him back ;)
7. His life goal at one time was to run a 5K without shoes. Yep, totally barefoot. He tried for some time to walk, and then run, barefoot before deciding that it would work great...if only we didn't have concrete and asphalt everywhere! Since then he has found comfortable shoes and we are both happier for it.
8. He's become a bit of a DIY-er over the last few years. He's not into crafty things, but he's gotten into making a lot of household items. Right now he makes his own shampoo and can make laundry detergent and some basic cleaners. Not a bad skill!
9. Name a sport and he's done it. Everything from 'normal' stuff like basketball, baseball, and tennis to some more out-there things like longboarding, BMX biking, and even a little parkour. He's one of those super athletic and talented people that's good at just about everything he touches.
10. The first time he kissed a girl was a little over 8 years ago. Yep, that was me :) More on that coming soon in the rest of our story! (That's one of my favorite parts for sure)